Negative People=Negative Life

Good morning friends:) I have been hearing and seeing so many people ask "Why Can't We All Just Get Along" the truth is because certain people feel that they can judge you and throw stones but in reality it is that person judging themselves but it is too hard to look inward to fix it so instead they cast their inscurities on others to relase the hurt and blame they truly feel. It is so easy to get wrapped up in it and let that person hurt/affect you, cause fights in other relationships.....don't give this type of person so much power over you. It is your life....take back control!!! Easier said then done sometimes.....I know....but ask yourself what benefit does this person bring to my life??? Picture life without the person(s) creating drama/fights; is it better without them.....if so, why not let them go???

From my expierence (and trust me with a certain person it has been a lot of problems), negative people, negative thoughts make you live your life in a negative way. It is hard to be happy and positive when hurt, arugments, judgement, anger plays a vital role in your house. You eat more, you feel like you are in a funk, you double guess yourself as to who you really are as a person, you do not feel like working out, you get so wrapped up in the negative that it is so hard to see the positive!!!

I said this on my Facebook page last night because a family member was stabbing me in the back (again) so I wrote this after I took the knife out: "When people talk about you and create negaitivty in your life (especially when it gets back to you) do not get upset or let it affect your life because people who truly know and love you do not listen to what these people say since they love and already accept you for the person you are...."

Focus and gain strength from the ones who truly accept you and love you for all of the good you do. Surround yourself with others who pick you up not trip you and want to see you fall.....I know it is so easy to fall back into the web that these people make but rip through the web and change the way you think/feel and react.....No action or having an indifference to what these people say takes back your control....your power!!!